sorry but WHAT?

[Jibe]

Kilta, your first contact with me was to bash me and slap my wrist for making a new thread. As such, it annoyed me much worse than if I had known and talked to you for awhile before. But I'm willing to let bygones be bygones as long as we can both stop the personal attacks.

[Kilta_Firelotus]

Kilta, your first contact with me was to bash me and slap my wrist for making a new thread. As such, it annoyed me much worse than if I had known and talked to you for awhile before. But I'm willing to let bygones be bygones as long as we can both stop the personal attacks.

yup I did say I was mean. And I'm not a mean person, just going through alot though I know its no excuse.

If you wanna see my humor look for my replying to a topic with me quotuing an anime XD

[Kilta_Firelotus]

his comment wasn't sexist even woman joke about the periods and being a b*tch. Watch cheslea lately sometime. Or betty white. I found it funny i'm anti sexist.

[ShinChuck]

his comment wasn't sexist even woman joke about the periods and being a b*tch. Watch cheslea lately sometime. Or betty white. I found it funny i'm anti sexist.

It was by definition sexist, because it was a comment based on a stereotype of women (as trinta correctly pointed out). You can argue you find it acceptable as a woman (I know specifically ones who don't find it acceptable - side note, though). You cannot argue it wasn't based on a gender stereotype.

Edit: SE apparently agrees it was inappropriate as well, having deleted it.

[Kilta_Firelotus]

a good % of woman do have wicked bad mood swings. Not just on their peroid But during that other time. Honestly soo many comidec woman joke about it, its just better to laugh then take something too serious.

But really Why fight in a thread? trin pretty much put her nose into something. If he made fun of her using that joke that is understandable. But he didn'r so really should be an issue.

But more importently what is the point of having a fight in a thread of ffxiv about woman being B*tches during that time of the mnth.

[trinta]

trin pretty much put her nose into something. If he made fun of her using that joke that is understandable. But he didn'r so really should be an issue.

Not sure what you're trying to imply here. I was just waiting for him to explain how his sexist comment wasn't sexist, which he failed to do.

And there is no point in having the topic in a thread about FFXIV, which is why I'm glad it's gone now. Let it go, sweetie.

[Chezen]

Wow. I'm gone a couple of hours and we're talking about women's hormones. How do I miss this stuff?


@Keith_Dragoon

Anyway. The point was I trying to make, is that while dying might seem to need to have a higher consenquence to you, and even to me in my own way, why is it wrong for someone else to have a more lax attitude about it? How is it bad for the game? Other than starting flame wars.

[Keith_Dragoon]

Wow. I'm gone a couple of hours and we're talking about women's hormones. How do I miss this stuff?


@Keith_Dragoon

Anyway. The point was I trying to make, is that while dying might seem to need to have a higher consenquence to you, and even to me in my own way, why is it wrong for someone else to have a more lax attitude about it? How is it bad for the game? Other than starting flame wars.

Its not BAD but its not helping the already bad party tactics flowing about. As mentioned somewhere in this thread or another people have cure on their action bar but won't use it to maintain their own lives or that of their party. This specific issue could be cured by drastically revamping the job/class system but a easier fix that causes less drama (less not none) would be to impliment a deterence to dying.

Also in a general since there is nothing casual about dying or being KO'd in real life (casts barfira) and it should atleast be somewhat severe in-game. Now I don't mean ANYWGERE near what would happen IRL but just some sort of penalty other then 3 mins of weakness that barely even effects much other then max hp/mp and stam regen.

[Chezen]

Its not BAD but its not helping the already bad party tactics flowing about. As mentioned somewhere in this thread or another people have cure on their action bar but won't use it to maintain their own lives or that of their party. This specific issue could be cured by drastically revamping the job/class system but a easier fix that causes less drama (less not none) would be to impliment a deterence to dying.

Also in a general since there is nothing casual about dying or being KO'd in real life (casts barfira) and it should atleast be somewhat severe in-game. Now I don't mean ANYWGERE near what would happen IRL but just some sort of penalty other then 3 mins of weakness that barely even effects much other then max hp/mp and stam regen.

Hm. So in the first paragraph, you're saying that it would help people to be better team players. Maybe. As I stated earlier, having the xp loss probably did shape me as a gamer. So I think it probably does build character. But people still have to want that. A lot of people play games to destress, myself included at times.

On the second paragraph, I imagine that was the original idea with death lol. But other than above, or for the thrill and adventure, it isn't really isn't something that has to be. It's a way of saying, "game over, you lost." really.

Now, for the record, I did say in the other thread that I wouldn't be too upset with having a points loss penalty as long as it was small, but I'd still prefer for a different method. However, there's enough people completely against it that I would be surprised if they actually go that far. A stiffer penalty of some type seems to be favorable with a lot of people though. It's hard to say for sure without counting all the posts.

[Keith_Dragoon]

Hm. So in the first paragraph, you're saying that it would help people to be better team players. Maybe. As I stated earlier, having the xp loss probably did shape me as a gamer. So I think it probably does build character. But people still have to want that. A lot of people play games to destress, myself included at times.

On the second paragraph, I imagine that was the original idea with death lol. But other than above, or for the thrill and adventure, it isn't really isn't something that has to be. It's a way of saying, "game over, you lost." really.

Now, for the record, I did say in the other thread that I wouldn't be too upset with having a points loss penalty as long as it was small, but I'd still prefer for a different method. However, there's enough people completely against it that I would be surprised if they actually go that far. A stiffer penalty of some type seems to be favorable with a lot of people though. It's hard to say for sure without counting all the posts.

True I can care either way but I lean more towards SP loss then other stuff cause it has been done before, it puts enough in play to deter people from dting because it doesn't matter.

I play for fun, destress and such and I (just me) don't see a small SP loss without the level down ontop of it could be stressful. I don't recall casting my official vote in the thread but I would PREFER a harsher penalty but nothing devestating to anyone.