Compared to other MMOs, that I played FFXIV is a lot more clickly then anything else I have ever played. In FFXI I have no problem getting pick up groups to farm AF3 gear, clearing all 70 VW fights with 18 pick up people group people. Provenance Watcher the final boss in VW is shouted for on a daily basis.

Try to get a group for AV or CC in FFXIV good luck with that.