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    Quote Originally Posted by Starlord View Post
    Yeah I would, because there's more to life then hold grudges
    To be totally honest, your apology coming in the middle of this whole thing with Kiria, may had something to do with how i responded to it.

    Apology accepted, let's move on.

    Or find something else to do today, sometimes i wish i didn't have so much free time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nemy View Post
    To be totally honest, your apology coming in the middle of this whole thing with Kiria, may had something to do with how i responded to it.

    Apology accepted, let's move on.

    Or find something else to do today, sometimes i wish i didn't have so much free time.
    A step toward friendship, now that's what I like =).

    *I may unblock you =)*
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nemy View Post
    An apology when you're cornered is not an honest apology.

    Especially if you still maintain the notion that i ever "implied" someone is an idiot in here.

    You are the kind of person who will falsely accuse someone to prove a point, and try to get away without proving their words. Choose an adjective here, assume i don't "imply" it, but clearly stating it.
    that's the problem with apologies, even when you know someone intimately there is the chance that they don't mean the words they say and with regards to actions such as apologies, which require there be some emotion behind them for them to have meaning, it can make accepting such things on face value very difficult, especially when all you have to go on is text and context

    given that, saying "Ok thank you for that apology" makes you look like much less of an ass, and helps others' opinions of you (which shouldn't affect the validity of your arguments, but let's be honest, they almost always do), than saying "You didn't mean that because of <reasons> and here is what kind of <negative descriptive> person you are"

    being as confrontational as you have been in the later half of this thread will not only turn more people away from your position (given the silent majority's penchant for compromise and non-aggression), but also invites the types of responses you've been getting

    in short, it doesn't help and if you are able to rise above any personal affronts your position would be better off as a result
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    Quote Originally Posted by LemmingKingXXX View Post
    that's the problem with apologies, even when you know someone intimately there is the chance that they don't mean the words they say and with regards to actions such as apologies, which require there be some emotion behind them for them to have meaning, it can make accepting such things on face value very difficult, especially when all you have to go on is text and context

    given that, saying "Ok thank you for that apology" makes you look like much less of an ass, and helps others' opinions of you (which shouldn't affect the validity of your arguments, but let's be honest, they almost always do), than saying "You didn't mean that because of <reasons> and here is what kind of <negative descriptive> person you are"

    being as confrontational as you have been in the later half of this thread will not only turn more people away from your position (given the silent majority's penchant for compromise and non-aggression), but also invites the types of responses you've been getting

    in short, it doesn't help and if you are able to rise above any personal affronts your position would be better off as a result
    I apologise. Sometimes i can't help myself not being "too honest", and i can understand how that can ignite situations.
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