This is all in regards to damage meters.

Quote Originally Posted by Tonkra View Post
i am able to see for example that there is better equipment on the market available than artifact stuff or what the heck ever..i dont need a parser for that..

it goes like this: better equipment -> the more damage you do. i dont know if you experience this, too.
It’s instantly shown in this example that you do not understand the real reason that parsers/damage meters are created. Having better equipment essentially DOES mean you will do more damage, HOWEVER, if you don’t perform your rotation and positioning correctly then you’ll be doing less damage than a character of the same class/job who has lesser gear and stats than you do.

There have been so many instances where I've been in much lower ilevel gear and come first on damage meters, against people in heroic raiding gear. When I came top I wasn't thinking ‘omgz check out my dps my e-peen is so huge I just beat everyone with gear so much higher than me’, I was simply proud at the fact that despite having lower gear than everyone else (including other members who were the same class as me), I was able to overcome them in damage whilst being able to position and manoeuvre myself out of harm’s way. This is also help from damage meters from a lot of rotation practise in my spare time, figuring out what works and what doesn’t.

Quote Originally Posted by Tonkra View Post
seriously it makes me sick after years to read "ya in WoW my fat d*ck-o-meter was so great etc."
I don’t recall there ever being a time that I was on WoW and someone shoved their damage meters in my face, followed by a taunt at how amazing they are, and if it has happened then it's such a rare occasion that I actually forgot about it. If this has actually happened to you, then I’m sorry that you had to group with someone who was being ridiculously immature. You won’t find these types of people only on WoW though, but any game, including FFXIV, and if it’s not about damage meters then it will be about something else.

Realistically speaking, the only time I can see that happening is through a pickup group to a raid. When you’re levelling up, nobody is bothered by your damage output, it’s not important. Damage meters are there for endgame content.

Quote Originally Posted by Tonkra View Post
when you think WoW is so great with stuffs like these.. then go play it... and seriously do you want that kind of community that you have in WoW?
I don’t want to play World of Warcraft. It’s literally that simple. When you say things like this it only makes you look foolish. Because we’re trying to incorporate what is known as the standard for present MMO’s, it instantly means we want to play the game that already has that? I want to play Final Fantasy XIV, but I also would like features implemented that actually work in an MMO. When it’s said that WoW is so great with these kinds of features, it doesn’t mean we’re trying to make World of Final Fantasy, it means we want to implement a simple addon to let us determine and maximise efficiency for our guilds/grand companies.

Quote Originally Posted by SoapySan View Post
It seems to be improving in a game is about how you play it, rather then what gear you have. Like I said this is my experience in wow. Improving = getting better gear = judged via dps meters. People post the top 1-10+ and they say, if you aren't on this list you need to leave the party. It's really obnoxious.
That is very exaggerated. If people were to post the first 1-10 of players, it would indicate a 25 man raid, which usually means 15 damage characters, and even then, someone has to come 15th on damage, even if almost everybody has near equal damage comparison. What would actually be a realistic situation is wiping in a raid, followed by someone posting the damage meters into chat. After a quick look, you can see that (in this example of course) 5 people are below the tanks in damage. It's that situation that you are talking about, and it's in no way obnoxious because it's outrageous for a damaging class to be doing lower damage than a tank. Nobody wants to be wiping all night.

You are the type of person who plays World of Warcraft without damage meters and then doesn’t understand why people kick you from a raid. It’s perfectly fine when you’re levelling up as it’s not important, but as soon as it comes to endgame, people want to win. People want to down content and clear bosses, and if you’re in a pickup group and are not pumping out sufficient damage then it’s entirely your own fault for letting the group down, not damage meters. Damage meters are just a clear indication of what you are doing. This doesn’t go to say that they’re needed by everyone though, as a basic understanding of skill priorities, rotation and statistics negates the need and makes using them optional.

I’m sorry but you cannot base a bad experience on WoW and blame it on an addon, when it was you yourself not being able to lift your weight. As much as you want to play purely for fun, bringing horrible damage to a difficult group challenge will only frustrate other people, making the experience unpleasant for the others. Try some easier content next time.

Quote Originally Posted by Tonkra View Post
things that mods/addons do is that it is forcing people to actually install that "shit" if they dont want to have disadvantages against those who use it. and thats a terrible idea in my opinion.
Could you provide us with an example of a mandatory addon to install on World of Warcraft? Addons for MMO’s are completely optional and the developers have the TOS to stop addons running the game for you. Whereas most people do enjoy the use of addons, I do know one person who played WoW without any addons, and he was the Main Tank in a high end raiding guild. Looking at the top 10 addons for WoW, Deadly Boss Mods is the ONLY addon that comes close to your description, and even then, DBM is not ‘cheating’, it simply tells you of what is already in the game and follows that up with warnings. It’s optional. If you don’t want to have warnings of abilities then don’t, but don’t drag down the top end hardcore gamers who want these types of addons because in your ‘opinion’ you disapprove.

Quote Originally Posted by Tonkra View Post
now then we have boss fights were everybody says "do not get 10 metre near the boss, otherwise you will get hit by an aeo attack" ... for me it is like making it far easier, in this case you cheat the game design, thats a fact.. because in the original version it is not visible to your character.
This is NOT cheating. I don’t know how you can play a community game and not expect someone who has experience in the fights to tell you what’s going to happen. Nobody wants to wipe. You’re saying that you’d rather not have anybody tell you what the enemy does, so you can die and learn yourself? You’re playing a none-existent type of community game then. It’s understandable if the entire party has no idea and you all suffer from the same cause of damage, but it is not cheating for someone to give you tips on an encounter, ergo Deadly Boss Mods.

Quote Originally Posted by kazaran View Post
Especially if you were not paying attention to the fight grabbed hate and whiped the party. Heavy DPS classes can do that easily. BLM's can grab hate in 2-3 casts. So it's tiem to back off.
This is true, which is why it’s important to also have forms of threat meters too. What some people don’t seem to understand is that the intention of damage meters is not to ‘rush to #1 and be amazing, not caring if you’re standing in a fire or pulling hate’ but to be the most efficient you can in terms of maximum damage output whilst also maintaining a low-ish amount of hate generation.

Quote Originally Posted by kazaran View Post
Other MMO battle system don't have such an easy hate grabbing ability.
Back in vanilla WoW the hate generation of DPS characters was incredibly high, you had to wait around 10 seconds for a tank to get enough threat on a boss before anyone could start damaging, unless you were a class that was able to redirect hate through damage. At the same time, damage meters still existed and were still put to use from top end guilds.

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There are a lot of viable reasons why damage meters exist and why they are so useful. You are entitled to your own opinion, but don’t shove your own false information down other people’s throats because you choose to live a life of ignorance.