Write your Positive Experience on FFXIV

[-Lilia-]

No one needs to put their Discord! Or even answer every question. You can even write your own.
Great job! <3

[-Lilia-]

All the current threads on page 1 in my opinion are wants and pointing out corrections. ~All completely valid! But when I look at it. It's kind of dull.
I'm going to bump this for more positivity!

[Minarisweet]

We dont need your toxic positivity

[-Lilia-]

We dont need your toxic positivity

Please elaborate on how you perceived it this way?
Because my intentions are not toxic. You perceived it that way. It's not true. Wish you well. ^^

If you dont want criticisms and only want feel good content reddit is right there.

Are you triggered by someone spreading love not hate?
You can criticize. You have freedom of speech. But what really, is your intention?
Because for me it is to spread -- positivity. I want to exude positivity to others.
If others perceive it negatively -- like you are. That's not for me to hold. That's what ever is going on inside of you and your wiring (your nervous system).

I truly wish you well. But don't you project your negativity onto me. When I'm nothing to do with the root of this.

Spread love not hate. And it's not toxic. That's just a conditioning -- that is basically shutting peoples positivity down. Whoever taught you that needs to let that go. It's unhealthy. And that's what's toxic. It's not welcome. <3

[TheGrimace]

Please elaborate on how you perceived it this way?
Because my intentions are not toxic. You perceived it that way. It's not true. Wish you well. ^^



Are you triggered by someone spreading love not hate?
You can criticize. You have freedom of speech. But what really, is your intention?
Because for me it is to spread -- positivity. I want to exude positivity to others.
If others perceive it negatively -- like you are. That's not for me to hold. That's what ever is going on inside of you and your wiring (your nervous system).

I truly wish you well. But don't you project your negativity onto me. When I'm nothing to do with the root of this.

Spread love not hate. And it's not toxic. That's just a conditioning -- that is basically shutting peoples positivity down. Whoever taught you that needs to let that go. It's unhealthy. And that's what's toxic. It's not welcome. <3

I appreciate your positivity.

[-Lilia-]

I appreciate your positivity.

Thank you. I genuinely care about people, even when what they’re expressing is pain.
I’ve come to see how society conditions us to hold onto energy we don’t actually need to carry. Spiritually speaking, every human being is shaped by their experiences.

When someone struggles with positivity, it often tells a story of having been shut down when they once expressed it themselves. We tend to pass on what we were taught.

Everyone has tools, and I know I speak in a way that not everyone will understand, and that’s okay. A tool that supports one person may not be right for another, because we’re all different.

But shutting people down when they’re expressing openness or positivity isn’t a tool that nurtures growth. It doesn’t create understanding. It simply closes something. That behavior, not the person, is something worth releasing.

We don’t get to hand others a mirror and tell them what they are. That kind of reflection isn’t true. It disconnects rather than connects.

Everyone is beautiful, and no one is meant to be a carbon copy of anyone else.

[Minarisweet]

Please elaborate on how you perceived it this way?
Because my intentions are not toxic. You perceived it that way. It's not true. Wish you well. ^^



Are you triggered by someone spreading love not hate?
You can criticize. You have freedom of speech. But what really, is your intention?
Because for me it is to spread -- positivity. I want to exude positivity to others.
If others perceive it negatively -- like you are. That's not for me to hold. That's what ever is going on inside of you and your wiring (your nervous system).

I truly wish you well. But don't you project your negativity onto me. When I'm nothing to do with the root of this.

Spread love not hate. And it's not toxic. That's just a conditioning -- that is basically shutting peoples positivity down. Whoever taught you that needs to let that go. It's unhealthy. And that's what's toxic. It's not welcome. <3

You might not be the root but you are perpetuating it. This forum is full of people silencing the other and you might be right i might be doing the same, but neither of us are innocent.

[Kaurhz]

We dont need your toxic positivity

It's funny because my post on the first page quite literally highlighted negative things and negative thoughts, yet nobody was calling it out.

Do you actually know what toxic positivity is, or are you just trying to recycle and reuse a phrase that you have heard elsewhere?

[Aelin_Ashryver]

Today I had a tank get pissy at someone pulling ahead of him and "not following me", stow his weapon and refuse to tank. I healed the dps through the pull and rendered him irrelevant. That was fun. Always amuses me when people try and grief and get shown how little they matter to the groups success.

[-Lilia-]

I updated 13. Enjoy. Happy New Year <3