i think if they set up a way that if there were no parties recruiting, instead of constantly refreshing the list, you could set it up that you are searching and a message will pop up saying that a party is being assembled. then you could look at your list and decide if you want to join up.

then if a person decides to create a party, a list of all people who are searching for a group will be listed and when that person starts recruiting, everyone who is searching for a party will get a message