Welcome to FFXIV! Always so nice to have new players.

Balmung, as they've already stated, is the "unofficial" RP server. There is a FFXIV RP website here and I figure for the hell of it, I'll just put in there, that the Linkshell I'm in, T.A.L.E. is totally awesome. ^^

Hope you have a great time in Eorzea!