instance based housing your ideas

[Solowing]

thats fine you can think that way if you want too, i believe island sanctuary was an attempt at something but it wasn't what people were asking from them and ultimately thats on the fault of the translators for not specifying clearer on what was being asked an the developers just had assumed things based on what they were told etc
so what you're then asking then is you want to create your own neighborhood correct? and one where you and friends can reside in and share yes?

They specifically said island sanctuary wasn't going to be player housing. Because players took it upon themselves to insert "instanced housing" when they never said anything about interior housing on island sanctuary.

Island Sanctuary: A feature from the Endwalker expansion that gave players a private island to develop. Players could farm, gather resources, craft, and capture creatures to create their own custom paradise.

Where did you see them mention instanced housing?

Over the years, they basically quietly said "we hear you but that's not the direction we're going"

Since this is the third rail topic , it's best for them not to say anything and just continue on the path they've chosen. Their actions have been telling you what you refuse to see