Honestly I remember first playing years ago and the community being some of the best I've ever had.

Being one of the people who quit WoW during Shadowlands and coming to FF it was a joy. People were friendly and helpful. Even the randoms in dungeons were nice and polite.

However since I've been back I've noticed just such a rise in openly hostile and nasty behaviour in game.

I have been a tank player for pretty much the whole time I've played MMORPGs. I'm not the best but I know what I'm doing.

However in dungeons recently there has been so many cases of DPS players using every mobility skill they have to rush ahead of me in the dungeon, pulling packs, demanding I then save them. (Despite the fact I'm doing everything in my power to go as fast as possible) If they die I get a ton of abuse. If I ask them even politely to slow down just a bit to allow me to pull so I'm not having to chase after them and then split up to get the ones who then agrro on the healer who is trying to save their ass.

Sorry but I for me personally I believe the tank should be the one to pull the packs and bosses. Every dungeon I do I go as fast as possible doing wall to wall pulls ect. The only times I slow down is if the healer is struggling or for example just before the final boss to allow a first timer to watch the cutscene and not have the group already whaling on the boss.

I understand that most people have done dungeons hundreds of times. I have too, but come on. Do people not realise by pulling as a DPS they run the risk of slowing down the dungeon? Especially if they die or I as the tank have to chase around the mobs who split off to attack everyone else but me.

To any DPS player out there who pulls.

Get a friend who tanks and then do that. Don't do that to a random tank who is trying their best.