Right, we engage with very different content.
I do play a lot of Frontline in which Discord vc is used, but almost exclusively by premades supercharging their advantage.
I understand this as a strategy, but personally have no interest in vc because it completely destroys immersion.
Those of us who prefer a solo approach to the game are constantly derided because "This is a MMORPG!!!" Which is ironic because vc advocates are essentially eliminating the RP element.
To get back to the original point, I completely agree with Hallarem. It's great you intersect with happy people in-game. My community is thoroughly pissed off and half of it has unsubbed.