I totally agree with the OP.
For me: Grinding should have a PURPOSE, PLAN, & PRODUCTIVITY.
PURPOSE here is to obtain a relic weapon.
PLAN is to get 18 atmas for the relic weapon & then spend 1,500 tomestones to upgrade it
PRODUCTIVITY is to get this step, since it is the 1st step, in a timely manner. Players, especially when they're doing the FATES outside of the OC, shouldn't have to be in a zone for 6 hours just to get 0 to 1 atmas. That's stupid & awful. Players, like myself, want to obtain their relic weapons in a timely fashion & move on with life.