Getting to play with my kid

[Moomba33]

To my knowledge Recruit a Friend will not bypass the server congestion. I hope world visit will suit your needs, or that the devs will change the congestion status on Coeurl soon.

I hope you have a wonderful day as well.

Edit: Just thought I'd add a clarification that world visit is not the same as a server transfer. World Visit is free and lets you play on any server on your data center with some restrictions like not being able to access your retainers while not on your home server. Server transfer is a paid service that moves your character to a new server and makes it their home server. Server transfers cannot be used to bypass congestion status.