[Duty Complete] = for people who already beat it (the implication is you should be consistent at it, otherwise should join [Duty Completion] or [Practice] instead)
[Duty Completion] = seen all the mechs, consistent enough at them, ready to clear in a few pulls (rarely, a few players put this when it's fresh prog because they are wildly overconfident, probably new to high-end duties)
[Practice] phase # = join only if you're consistent up to that mech (but obviously many aren't consistent or party leaders themselves aren't)
[Practice] fresh prog = can be totally new to the fight
Thanks guys because I didn't know - my whole time doing high end content I've always been following others.
I am most likely wildly over confident but I did run a [Duty Completion] one a few nights ago we did like four pulls and disbanded and one guy was like "Didn't clear"
And I was like - I'm not a prog liar ,I have seen all the mechs.
Thanks though I'll be more mindful of the future and maybe just stick to [practice] tabs
1. We need to also better separate optimistic boldness from "toxic positivity." See also below.
2. Yep. Not reading chat is pretty common in general, and it's also most likely going to be the case for the typical player (that's actually trying to clear the duty). Meanwhile, being toxic to the small segment that's actually there to grief is likely to give them exactly what they want. Flaming is a lose/lose.
3. This easily creates an also-toxic culture of fear, however, especially when you consider the side effects of being blacklisted. Somebody doesn't "get it" soon enough regarding raid culture (more likely in XIV, since in WoW or Lost Ark they'll understand all too well from being declined from group after group without even getting a chance to see if they perform well enough or not)? Next thing welp they have trouble falling back on even hunts or FATE/map groups or exploratories or even hanging out in Limsa because of having been BL'd due to gameplay issues in EX/Savage. They'd literally have to buy the game again to get out of this (and I'm not even sure if it would have to be a separate Square Enix Account, as I'm not sure if BL follows this or merely an individual subscription account).The only viable solution is for people to actively use the block/blacklist function a lot more. Only by denying entrance, they will perhaps understand that their behavior is bad.
4. It gets WORSE, really, because the role of Discord in all this almost permanently entrenches the power of the largest moderator cliques. Which means, it gets toxic and it doesn't implode, instead you mostly get people that accept empire or they evermore grumpily roll the dice on PF or quit the content altogether.
You need a big public Discord to make a difference (even big friendly guilds with endgame headcount in the hundreds usually need outside recruitment in order to successfully form a raid group, small as they seem to be). On top of the community management requirements this entails, or should entail, you have the Discord Trust and Safety team constantly breathing down your neck with automated enforcement measures that, based on numerous anecdata, are absurdly easy for just a single troll to bring down the whole house through if there is even a few minutes gap in moderator coverage. (This whole house can include the accounts of every member, too. Imagine trying to play without Discord, given that most active non-mainstream social platforms these days are, well, the kind that someone as stoic as Thancred would probably struggle to tolerate, much less be comfortable in)
The result is that most players (it mainly takes pure luck to avoid this) find themselves with a choice of rolling the dice on PF, or accepting the terms set by incumbent large Discord community moderators. Some are decent people, some are not, and unfortunately, the ones that are not probably understand all of the foregoing perfectly well enough to know they don't need to be, they essentially have a cornered market ...
5. Given the difficulties most games that accept such "but we have witnesses!" quantity based reporting have with abuse (right up to and including "stalking/grooming victim gets ignored because it's just one report, while someone that competed legit on the markets with an RMT cartel that ought not to be even getting to play in the first place gets banned by coordinated mass report" levels of absurdity) this is likely considered an intentional lesser-evil choice.
6. Yep. Duty Complete adds its own level of toxic and unhealthy, useful as it might be.
Start PF progging? Well you better death march that stuff because if you take a break and the others clear in the meanwhile, you can forget about continuing with them because they'll put up the Duty Complete wall so you're forced to put up "fresh prog" once more to actually get fills and your entire efforts have gone to waste, the way FFXIV mechanics work these days (in WoW this is more tolerable for various reasons).
7. I expect this is a fault of the FFXIV design and the way in which rez works, but there is no simple way around it (individual permadeath was tried up through Sephirot Ex and it doesn't really work in any useful way with a group of 8).
In most MMOs, when you die, unless you are a critical role worthy of using the extremely limited battle rez, that's it, you're hors de combat and either the group clears without your further input (in which case you clearly understand you got carried) or it does not (and then you clearly know where you stopped).
In XIV it gets muddied by raises, damage downs, healer LB3s - and even moreso by the fact that these (well, not damage downs, lol) are common and expected recovery methods in normal modes (some of which would in fact be fully as hard as EX/Savage if rez was limited similarly - just see WoW difficulty tuning for an easy example as the mechanics in WoW normal or even Heroic raids are often no more complex than a normal trial or alliance raid, but there you don't get to easily recover from KO the way you do here).
Unless you take those recovery methods off your bar during serious content (and there are Ultimates where the healer LB3 is required, so even that's a muddy spot) and the community just agrees to full wipe every time there's a player death in EX/Savage, this is always going to be at least something of an issue.
This is easily avoided if you don't waste 7 other people's time. If you have a bad day or you cannot be consistent, remove yourself. Don't drag everyone down with you into an endless misery. Being kind to 1 person like this is being unkind to everyone else.This easily creates an also-toxic culture of fear, however, especially when you consider the side effects of being blacklisted. Somebody doesn't "get it" soon enough regarding raid culture (more likely in XIV, since in WoW or Lost Ark they'll understand all too well from being declined from group after group without even getting a chance to see if they perform well enough or not)? Next thing welp they have trouble falling back on even hunts or FATE/map groups or exploratories or even hanging out in Limsa because of having been BL'd due to gameplay issues in EX/Savage. They'd literally have to buy the game again to get out of this (and I'm not even sure if it would have to be a separate Square Enix Account, as I'm not sure if BL follows this or merely an individual subscription account).
As for Limsa. I don't give a flying fuck about it as I don't hang around there anyway and I wouldn't want to be friends or interact with somebody that doesn't have the decency to show basic courtesy and respect anyway.
Last edited by Kohashi; 04-18-2025 at 08:30 AM.
Use [Duty Completion] or [Practice] and have "Cleanup to Enrage" i the description. Putting your enrage % also is helpful. (31% enrage, 10% enrage, and 1% enrage are different beats )
It's also acceptable to send a tell to a reclear party leader if you are around sub 5% enrage asking to join. If they say no its whatever, but I've found being honest and polite pays in dividends. (Just be upfront with the rest of the party too once you join. Many PF raiders are very understanding and prefer honesty)
Last edited by Jamini; 04-18-2025 at 11:45 PM.
I have a huge issue with people using websites not because of the reason (100% valid)
but as somebody who cannot update it I rely on others. When I did M5S it showed nothing, then showed my best pull was 80% (?)
I was at enrage at that point (cleared today) so I checked to see what it said and.... it says I am at M6S at 100% and I have never stepped a foot into that raid.
I am very confused, am I missing something? I remember during FRU people would sometimes assume me "prog lie" I found out how they "check up".
I was shocked because, my progs were incorrectly updated.. and sometimes, never updated at all. Then I was able to do it. Now I am unable.
The problem with using this system is the inconsistency and it really hurts people like me who rely on others and where I play it is not common.
That is why this is a "cultural thing" more than "actual thing" but of course while I wish it was more accurate, there is another issue.
First time I hit enrage was after a few pulls... the problem out me getting to enrage? I was dead most of the time. But if I consider myself "A2C" I would not be a prog-liar if my results show that indeed I have seen enrage. This details I don't know, but seem inconsistent. What more is inconsistent is a data cannot see how someone feels.
I was less well today, and doing an hour prog A2C I made dumb mistakes over and over and I felt discouraged. If people saw this in NA/EU I would be called out no doubt.
Issue isn't that I haven't seen enrage many times alive at that point or prog lying: I had (aside of lag and 2 people DCing middle of the runs and my screen freezing) a bad day. Thankfully I was able to clear with no rewards but I am happy to say I lived through the entire fight (With 2x damage downs so no perfect!! Ok, whatever I got perfect groove twice!!) Anyway, I understand people's point but to rely on something so much is also relying on deceive in other hand.
Dodgelist, I would be more than likely to end up for "griefing" after joining one time and I happen to find out I have a bad day. And people are oversensitive, quickly stepped on their toes and until they make a mistakes "others are ruining it", a block should be when the person is both denial/rude and ruining the mood. Mistakes being considered "griefing" is griefing itself, nobody posting about others griefing played perfect either.
I am someone who is always honest with mistakes etc but most aren't ... I don't think there is a good solution yet... unless.... PF is setup in "phases" and you cannot join unless you LIVED through the phase, would fix everything! (Well, for me T_T)
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