Honey? Really? That's how far we've got, have to get a sly dig in somewhere. Nice of you to assume that I am female for some reason. Really helps your cause making you look like an absolute clown.
Also stack markers are solo hits. You're thinking of multi hit stacks which function quite differentely, they aren't the same. Where is this secret fight then that only has one of these every 10 minutes? Tanks cant really survive those multi hit stacks either even with their cooldowns unless they have their invun, and that's on a 5-7 minute cooldown. So either there is a fight out there that only has one of them every 5 minutes or someone is telling me porkies. Warrior could maybe do it with well timed Bloodwhetting and a mix of cooldowns but your average Tank isn't pulling that off. Let's stop pretending that every Tank player is a superstar.

So what would you like then? You wanna make Tanks weaker again so no one plays them again like ARR / HW days when there was a Tank shortage? You want Tanks to die for no reason because the majority of healers in 14 aren't very good at their jobs? I mean, we're having this converstation right now because healers with all their endless tools cant do simple healing or mitigation. It's the sad reality of healers.

Better yet, lets make it so no one feels left out and just make it so when a single player dies the entire party wipes. It's not fair right that they have to sit on the floor and watch whilst they wait for a player to raise them. That's not right at all in your books it seems.