I'm someone that, since Dec 2016, has probably played at least a bit a day. I enjoy getting achievements and just doing content.
Since getting everything to 100 (I was fine with DT msq, not perfect but hey) and 7.1 coming out I find myself getting on barely in the morning to refresh my retainers with stuff, rushing weekly tomes and other stuff on Monday, and only occasionally working on achievements I'm close to when I don't feel like playing anything else. All my friends I play with are currently unsubbed, and I only get on to watch our large FC house and my personal some days.

There's nothing to really sink my teeth into anymore. This happened in Endwalker patches, but I was okay with it then because I had some things to catch up on. I already did some of the "big grinds" (getting the sugar glider mount, getting 20 wins on the new map dungeon) and looking for more. Chaotic kinda smacked me upside the head because it didn't solve the problem at all.
The graphics update also made things was harder for me. I have an older gaming computer that runs other games perfectly fine. Since DT it literally started to lag crazy. I can't do hunt trains without either lagging or crashing. Two of the maps immediately drop my fps low (the effects in the giants area from a Mandy attack lag me if I so much as look at them, and I don't have to explain why Heritage Found is laggy).
I love this game because of the people I've met, the character I have made and generally just existing in the game world. I hate that I feel this way.