For me, the story soured the experience. Normally I would spend time leveling jobs, not so much this time and most jobs at 100 is due to frontline and Pelupelu.

Did normal raid for 4 weeks on WAR to get the gear, then building rest up with tomes. I did still do roulette for caster gear, but stopped that recently.
This basically leaves me with alliance raid (last coin next week) and two unreal each week that I log in for.
Mostly the other days it's to get a treasure made, maybe a frontline, and then log out.

Overall, I'm spending a lot less time on FFXIV now than pre-DT, and for me the main reason is there's not a lot of things below extremes for longterm grinding.