The comment about people having anxiety didn't sit right with me. It's crazy the ableism in this community. Did someone tell you they had anxiety or is this just an assumption? Also, if a person isn't sure they can handle something then why not work with them instead of forcing them to go at your pace? Big pulls mainly affect the tank and healer so if either one of these people aren't ready, you're in for a wipe anyway. And what you'd thought would save you time, ends up costing you more time in the long run. Also people tend to at least try and if a wipe happens, they will take it slower. But it's weird that that is your gripe, as if you were never new to the game yourself.