My friend doesn't play that much anymore, ever since Throne and Liberty came out. She'd rather grind endlessly for hours there, as FFXIV's job design is so boring, she can't bring herself to login that much anymore. I had a 1,5 month break, recently resubbed like 3 days ago because there's still things I want to do in game, but also having started IT classes, in a way FFXIV provides me the "nothing too much to miss out on because patches come every 4 months".
I gave WoW a try and was kinda taken aback how well healers feel there. There's been other MMORPGs I've been trying but only FFXIV falls short in terms of combat and job design.
And because my friend no longer logs in, I'm back to being a lone wolf in the game.