My issue with healers not DPSing isn't their DPS, it's the fact as a Tank main I can say that Tanks play with that in mind, our CD's are limited and we need to space them out, once they fall off and the mobs are still alive you just get dunked on making it much more difficult for the healers, that's what I try to explain to them. We're just trying to make the game easier for them.

If they want my advice happy days, if not it doesn't really matter. If I die I die and we move on. I'm usually very positive about runs. It's only players that make zero effort that I don't have time for.