Thanks.

Turns out i had that green thing to change to bard but never used it So now it shows me being a bard. I am a total noob so know less than nothing. I remember doing the quest to get bard from the dude sitting on the rock but what to do after that was not se clear it seems or i would have done it.

For the amount of stuff we read they used very little text to make us change or i would have done it. I think a box warning us to change now would be good. I went from 30 to 52 while not being changed.