Bro you should see some of these people I encounter in PF/DF. Healing good people who know what they're doing versus healing random mouthbreathers is like night and day. I've had groups eat so much damage that they made casual story content feel like a damn EX run and I'm still amazed that it happened. It's so bad I stopped doing it. I wasn't having fun; I was just stressed and pissed at how bad people were in stuff that was supposed to be easy.