I am healing the party but I should be actually healing you as the tank not you healing yourself, your entire view is built on the fact that tanks should just be alone in the party doing whatever they want and that the rest of the party should be reliant on each other
YOU. SHOULD. DIE. IF. I. DONT. HEAL. YOU. JUST. LIKE. I. DIE. IF. YOU. DONT. TANK. FOR. ME
if you don’t agree with the above statement you aren’t even arguing anything relating to the trinity, you are arguing a weird reciprocal dichotomy between the healers and DPS while the tanks stands alone as being relied upon but never needing to rely on others. If that’s your view of tanks just admit it rather than dancing around it, because you still have yet to tell me even though I’ve alluded to it 4 times what tanks should actually rely on the other roles for. In a healthy trinity all 3 roles rely on each other, right now the tank relies on the healer for nothing