I don't think that many people are sneaking in, the game doesn't even let people onto my server when we have a 10 person queue haha (the person in my static from Primal tried) I think Aether just naturally has a bajillion players on it already. We were *the* place everyone came to during Shadowbringers/Endwalker. Also 2:30 est on a weekday tends to be a slower time for most servers. I'm on Aether and my dps queues for stuff like leveling, main scenario, and high level dungeon tend to be 10-20 minutes during prime time. I think alliance raids/normal raids/expert are the only ones I can get through quickly.