The community as a whole is warm and welcoming.
Thousands of stories and experiences are prove of that.
The strict regulation certainly helps to deter people to be openly hostile as that gets sanctioned quickly.

But truth is also that there isnt just one community.
Heck you even have different cultures in the different Data Centers, which makes sense when we recall that those get also populated by people from different parts of the world..

The thing is also that people that are frustrated are more likely to discuss those online and some places reflect that. The english forum is one of these

But overall dont worry Flower as you said plenty of places show the strong positivity of the broader community.