I got into WoW during the EW lull and I was incredibly surprised by how great it was. The playerbase has a reputation, but I have not really experienced that at all. The first dungeons I joined I said I was new and was walked through them, politely told how I could improve my rotations, given tips on the bosses and just kind of cheered on. Then joined a guild and it has been absolutely fantastic. They help with old content, explain things and are happy to help when I am stuck. I actually have found the WoW players to be a lot more open, friendly and willing to help than in ffxiv. And as someone who really didn't care much for the aesthetic, it really grew on me quickly.
The game is really not that complicated at all. The rotations feel natural the mechanics are not hard to figure out, there are even built in guides that will give you tips on bosses and mechanics. Plus, like I said, the players have been absolutely amazing. I was incredibly nervous to start running dungeons due to that WoW rep and was surprised by how great the experience has been and how much fun it has been. Plus the Dragonflight story and msq, which isn't the best, was still leap and bounds over leaps and bounds better than what DT gave us. Not to mention the lack of pretty, cutesy and UwU in WoW has felt great. I love seeing ugly characters or more beastial races (love my Tauren!) and the lack of that super saccharine anime aesthetic that not only plagues glam but also some npcs is wonderful.
I just got notification that my sub was about to renew and ended up cancelling it due to quite a few reasons. I will most likely spend my time in TWW because, again like I said, the overall experience, from gameplay to community, has been better than I could have possibly imagined. I think the only way you would not get along with the players is if you are the type you just doesn't want to try and wants to just be carreid through, which is an epidemic in ffxiv, cause the players over there just will not put up with that. So it's not surprising when ffxiv players are so vehemently against WoW.