What Controller do you use?

[OgruMogru]

I'm using an 8bitdo ultimate wired and it's a really good controller but it hurts me to use it. My hands are very small and my joints are hypermobile so it gets very uncomfortable. I prefer the x-box style stick positions but so many permutations I see place the buttons so far into the centre of the controller with huge outward protruding shapes that really make them so bulky and awkward to reach across comfortably. I'm always on the lookout for a viable alternative but I've never found anything that really looks suitable. The comfiest controller I have ever used is actually the plastic joy-con holder that came with my switch. I have issues with the joycon d-pad and the sticks feel awful to use too, but that layout and sizing was so so comfortable and I'm really annoyed the switch pro doesn't have the same layout.