Quote Originally Posted by jdtuggey View Post
I think most of us who are on the "better at the game" end of the casual spectrum are really eager to reach out and offer help.
The problem I see is that the few who complain don't want help. Either they say it flat out, or excuse themselves with X or Y factor.
There's a point where it becomes legit to ask ourselves "Is this game really for you ?", and in a "I care for everybody's interests equally" way.
I dropped pages of advice concerning mechanics and game concepts these people seemed to struggle with, and it just gets brushed off.
I see plenty of sprouts with pristine attitude in game who actually ask questions, have an open mind, and want to learn tho, and these people are amazing to work with.
You're 100% correct. the amount of times I have told someone "That marker with the arrows pointing in means we need to stand together to spread the damage" and they respond with a variation of "DON'T TELL ME WHAT TO DO" is frankly insane, and either equals or outweighs the times I have been thanked for relaying this information. Let alone more complex mechanics, etc. I'm convinced that the problem is nothing to do with the content itself and everything to do with the attitude someone has to hold to believe that self-improvement is anathema to enjoyment.