I think you turbo casuals should just deal with getting carried through the content once, and go back to treating your favorite mmorpg game like habbo hotel. This is not the game's problem, since this is how normal content should be in the first place. This is purely a you problem where you're too stubborn to learn the mechanics, nor are you ever willing to pull your own weight a bit. And when the game finally doesn't cater towards your selfish request of braindead easy content, you resort to whining on the FFXIV forums.

What is wrong with wiping? Especially on normal raid content. You wipe, you start from the start, and then you just learn and grow along with your party members. Oh! But you're selfish to learn and it's either your way or the highway. It is one of the worst mindsets to have. It's a video game, and the satisfaction comes from overcoming obstacles that were difficulty the first time. Just let the huge majority of players have their fun, let them carry you, and just don't touch the current content again. If you wanna level your alt jobs up, just do FATEs. Do your gatherers and crafters.

There are plenty of things you can do in FFXIV, so I don't understand how difficulty of current content is such a huge deal for players like you.