Hah, now that you explained it people will tl;dr you- you can't win with people who want to just say no, they'll just go for whatever is nearby and toss it at you like pocket sand. If you don't explain your entire belief system, they'll simplify your desires into the worst possible representation, if you attempt to explain it they'll ignore or grasp at SE's pocket book or something. "we can't do that, it's different"... *insert face desk jpg* OF COURSE ITS DIFFERENT WHY AM I GIVING FEEDBACK IF I WANTED IT THE SAME lol.

On the other hand, I had a lot of fun reading your post and just thought to say nice