Quote Originally Posted by Jinglypockets View Post
Agree 100%.

If any of the people complaining about the difficulty had been in one of my groups, we would have gotten them through it, encouraged and helped them with the parts they were struggling with, and had a great time doing it.

I understand the anxiety of going into multiplayer and worrying about being a drag on the group. I feel it too when I go into harder content even when I know I'm capable.

That said, I can count on one hand the number of unkind words I've seen said to anyone in this game over the years, even in Extreme and Savage Party Finder groups with people who are struggling hard. Overwhelmingly, people in DF and even PF are welcoming, helpful and encouraging. Especially if you tell them it's your first time or you have a hard time with certain mechanics or whatever else.
To reaffirm this post, I always go RDM in roulettes just to help people who are struggling and carry them over the finish line with no judgement. I'm actually happy when they mess up because it's not just me doing my usual rotation for the 100,000x time and actually thinking about mp management