Hmmm, I think this is just a simple case of glam readjustment. In the first place, you femhroths are frigging BEAUTIFUL! You have such a delicious full bodiness about you that simply executes and murders the typical cutsieness so overbearingly prevelant. As for the arms, those ironlike yet deceptively soft ligaments need no coverups. Just equip some fashionable gloves and wield them like sensual weapons.
I WOULD go femhroth myself, but my only issue is with the height. Kinda feel 50% of the necessary intimidation factor flies out the window.