Quote Originally Posted by Circonflexe View Post
Honestly this leads to a hole different topic about empathy - sure you can handle it like that, but I wouldn't describe it as polite, if that person is sad about an outfit, that was in their eyes beautyfull looking by choosing it and is very different (negatively different in their oppinion) the other day. It gets nastier if I choosed the same outfit, that I now like more than before and tell the person how beautifull it is and how much an outfit _should_ look like this to be pretty, while she/he is very sad. That's not respectfull, that's sassy.

There are very different ways to talk about the topic - phrases like "in my oppinion" don't change the massage in any way. You could say very nasty things "in your oppinion" but it would stay nasty things.
Your view seems to be that everyone should always agree with everyone else regardless of what they actually think just to avoid ruffling any feathers, which I would have to disagree with. We're on a discussion forum which by its nature is going to result in a mix of different opinions, but any stable adult should be able to discern between someone being nasty and someone simply not agreeing with them. As long as everyone is polite it's okay to disagree.

Quote Originally Posted by Circonflexe View Post
I apologize if you didn't mean it in the sense of "nah it's fine git gud lol", but I still have no other interpretation for it, no matter how many times I read your original post.
Not much I can do for you there unfortunately but I appreciate the apology.