^ THIS! Perfectly said!
The infuriating part is, many people take this counsel like a personal attack. “You don’t pay my subscription! Get throat cancer!” And then immediately que again. As well, I can’t remember where I red it, but it specifically lists sending tells after the match as harassment. Even if this is done with respectable intentions, it’d be up to a gm’s interpretation.
It’s just frustrating when you see the same person on your team, say, as blm or rpr, verses another of the same job on the other who knows what they’re doing, and running a scenario, you’re almost sure you’re gonna lose due to the deficiency. Yes, that’s the fickle nature of pvp, but it’d just be nice to see the devs set some kind of initial test to make sure the most basic knowledge is known.