You're hanging out with some pals in a restaurant when some random guy sits at your table, insults you and your friends, then gets up and leaves.
"Huh, that was weird."
You continue your conversation, and then another random person comes by, says the exact same thing, then gets up and leaves. It happens two more times, with varying levels of engagement, but the same overall dismissiveness.
"What is going on?"
As you are getting dessert, the first guy comes BACK to your table, says "Wow, you guys are still talking? WTF? You were supposed to stop when I showed up!"
"Hey, you're COMING OVER HERE, and TALKING TO US. WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM?"
"Guys guys, be civil, chill chill!"
Like, I understand it, I really do, but civility is difficult when you have people who legitimately don't understand, and frankly, don't want to understand why people have issues with supports in this game. They'd much rather deal out sick one liner combos on "stupid elitists" and be in much more practical, productive, and realistic environments than the Official Forum intended for feedback on the battle system, like the ever constructive and positive Youtube comment section or babysitting DF where healers are so overstressed I guess, people apparently cannot help themselves from getting hit and need to be rescued out of basic point blank aoes.
Two way street. If the developers don't respect supports enough to provide actual data, sensible justification for design, actual role design leads or legitimize complaints, why should we expect the players who disagree with us inherently to ever do so? FFXIV deserves the Green River, honestly.