I mean, I've literally gotten a flurry of threats and insults off of...
- "Just a heads-up: you don't actually need to stick to Cure I. The skill given at level 14, Lucid Dreaming (with the icon of the purple figure praying) gives back about 4000 MP and you get back another 4000+ naturally over time, so you can feel free to use Medica II and Cure II as needed. The MP costs aren't an issue until you get low. The Freecure trait is mostly just for if you recently died,"
and
- "If you don't mind, a Holy at the start of the pull goes a long way towards reducing the healing required. Similarly, you can always cast Regen before the pull. This will reduce the need to use your more complicated abilities."
Yes, those words exactly.
(And yes, in the first case the healer cast only Cure and maybe a couple Regens. In the second, they were mostly idle until spamming Cure 1 and the rare Cure II once my health dropped below half; not a single ability. I was on DRK in Bartam's Mettle. We eventually had to small pull because there just wasn't enough damage or healing to sustain normal ones.)
About three-quarters of the time, unsolicited advice given tactfully has gone over just fine. But there has been that quarter of the time, generally when it's most needed, where it hasn't. As such, it can feel pretty disincentivized to try to help via instruction those who are clearly struggling since they're also the most likely to be hostile in turn. /shrug