That is the biggest issue in these sort of discussions
Having two sides with differents opinions is not really that of a problem, with enough talk you can solve it/understand the other.
The real issue is when you have this "third party" or any individual with the sole purpose being to throw off every hope of discussion from everyone here.
(at least that's how i see it/feel)
I know it's easier said than done, but keeping your cool (or at least trying your best) is the best thing you could do in this situation, from one side or the other.
(if not that'll give just more power to people who want healers problems to disappear under the rug, again)