See, I feel the opposite. I feel like most of the time when someone disagrees, they come in and are immediately rude and disrespectful about it. Not everyone, but an alarmingly high amount of people and are intentionally very antagonistic. Perhaps the experience you're talking about is you got swept away in that because there was already tension in the air. I won't justify that if that's the case, because that's not right either.
I don't know what confrontation you're referring to, so I would initially want to see what is it that you said originally. Was it actually more antagonistic than you thought it was? Is there any reason someone might take it as confrontational? Who responded to you? Does their response seem justified, or are they overreacting and/or being hateful about it? Is their response "biting your head off" or not? I'm not suggesting that you're lying about it. I'm just saying I haven't seen the conflict, so I can't really speak to what I think happened.
As someone who's been trying to give feedback since before Shadowbringers, it's tiring, and I constantly feel like people who don't see the issues I do are constantly against me. Now, coming into a space like this where a lot of people are barging in guns blazing, I can understand why it's difficult to be patient with disagreements, and I can see how if there are innocent disagreements, how those could get lashed out at unintentionally.
I would just like to see more consistent civility here on both sides, but if there's someone who comes in, weapons drawn, there will naturally be backlash to it.



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