Selfishness..really? It's called being realistic. How is it selfish that people chose to play the game while it was free to play, mind you and obtained an event item during that period whereas a lot more people chose not to play the game even though it was F2P and now want it? I can understand the people who missed it for legitimate reasons, but honestly? That's only the miniority when a helluva lot more simply chose not to get on XIV and get it. It hurts no one to have it be offered but we were told last year when people asked if it will be available next year (as in 2012) that it would not be offered this year but instead they will offer kimono/yukata (they went with yukata).
It's not I telling you otherwise, it's the development team because while a bikini can make or break your enjoyment..actual gameplay elements matter more to a lot more people and they know this, which is why they're perfectly fine with shuffling event items around, they don't make or break the overall gameplay of FFXIV, so while it's important to you...it's just an event item that has no significance in the grand scheme of things. It's not like it's Darklight armor that will only be available once a year, THEN we'd have a problem, because Darklight armor is a very sought after armor set and if SE only allowed the armor to exist for 1 year at a time, that's a lot more cause for concern than a bikini because it is integral to gameplay.For many people with certain personality types things like this are important and is a major reason they play MMOs just because you don't understand doesn't mean it's wrong. Many people will be upset. It's the kind of thing that will vastly improve my game play and not having one will drastically reduce my enjoyment (1 year wait IS enough). Who are you to tell me otherwise?
Then tell me, did you join before or after the event? If you joined after you simply just have to wait till it's offered next year or see if they stick to their word and release recipes of a different swimsuit like they hinted at. If you joined before, what's your excuse for not logging in last summer and getting one? The event was easy that you could even do at low levels. If you kept up with the game at all you would have known it wouldn't be handed out this year.For me and many other people this IS my most sought after item in game
So let's be real here, what's more selfish? Telling SE to hotfix in a bikini or knowing that they simply didn't want to offer it this year? When I join an MMO and I missed an event you know what happens? I have to wait until they offer the item again or do the said event again, but you know what happens? They almost never offer the same item twice or ever again, like in Maplestory my brother's gf missed the chance at getting a certain hat because she started playing it after the "new release" of the new class, she won't have the ability to get it probably ever again.
So while I can understand the frustration, really think about it, it's not that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things..I can promise you for every person that feels this is the most important thing to them, there's 100+ others who feel gameplay is more important. Neither side is wrong, but demanding SE offer this is a sense of entitlement.
So if you missed it because you joined the game after the fact, you just simply have to wait till they reoffer it next year it's as simple as that, I'd understand even more if SE blindsided us with the news it won't be offered but they didn't. This is why it is not I that's being selfish.