Lame thread with lame complaints - you are the one to blame for joining a Linkshell full of douches XD
Blaming the humanity on this forum wont help you, only will make you look stupid.
How about you go and find some nice friends that will treat you the way you like to be treated, and if there are no such ppl on the planet earth - nobody forces you to join lame ones, just enjoy your life while soloing