I feel like my miqo won the lotto in the beauty upgrade- but while some of the changes are very jarring to others faces or even more of a downgrade; I can only hope there are no rollbacks and instead, we get further improvements!
I agree with what you're saying though & it does seem like many people are on the same page while there are a few who have outlandish requests imo and others being incredibly rude. There are people who are not being constructive with their feedback and are instead asking for downgrades.
I hope the devs reach out soon & discuss what sort of further improvements we'll get to our characters- regardless of player upset. I'm foreseeing this to be the Viera fiasco again- when we were told we'd get more unique hairstyles for them in replace of the fact they'll never get hats but players foolishly said No, and now viera are stuck with alot of unflattering old hairstyles and still no hats.

With all of that being said, I do think it'd have helped if we'd been given more insight as to what each face looks like instead of just a few examples (which were enhanced when we were shown). And had we been further given context as to where to give feedback, (because yoshi-p has said he doesn't listen to reddit) because we have no real clue where to post to get devs attention or what stipulations are required to get their attention, there would be less negative feedback.

But yes, I am looking forward to the update & can hardly wait to see my miqo in DT!