Pulling why?

[ThorneDynasty]

There's no toxic behavior in DPS running ahead, unless they are deliberately sabotaging the party. They are just as free to do so as the tank or the healer is. It's actually often good strategy if they are using their own defensives let alone Arm's Length and not pulling mobs in weird directions. The tank and healer will then do their best to keep the party alive by tanking and healing, while DPS do the same by killing the mobs as quickly as they can. You are not special.

It's your job to tank things that would kill the DPS. Just like it's the healer's job to keep the tank alive, even if they dislike something about the way you are tanking.

Like do you understand those DPS aren't griefing you in any way? They are doing what they think is best for a smooth run, you don't get to grief them because you don't like it.