Just pull Wall to Wall. Stop being a panzy.

The ONLY time I'll allow non wall to walls, is when the healer doesn't know what they're doing, because they're watching youtube on their second monitor and paying no attention. Or fresh level 70 sages furiously mashing their buttons in Doma Castle. Otherwise? I'm falling asleep healing you. Up the ante, up the excitement. Wall to wall all day long.

Literally, you press 3 buttons up until lvl 80-90. Then you might even have to press a whole 4 buttons. Withering rotation I know. Then you maybe want to use your defensives so you don't die, and not stand in the orange stuff on the ground. The worst that can happen is you wipe once, and you lose like a minute of progress. If you're so fragile as to be upset by a single wipe when you learn what your group can/can't handle, maybe seeking counselling services would be a higher priority than playing FFXIV.