Look. Lalafell players can do whatever they want. They can engage in all the debauchery this game's community has to offer as the next player and their respective race.

That said, you have to understand and realize the stigma that entails. You don't have to accept it, you can choose to ignore it, but there is little-to-no point in fighting against it. You won't change the views of the vast majority of users who think little of people who play Lalafell in the (E)RP scene or choose to skirt the lines of what is socially acceptable with names like "Loli". Ignore the people who call you names or treat you with disgust, but don't interact with them, don't badger them and open yourself up to more attacks. It really is that simple.

It is difficult to find sympathy for Lalafell players who are treated poorly by the rest of the community when they often incur the wrath of other players by poking the proverbial sleeping bear whether intentionally or otherwise. You are free to do your own thing with likeminded individuals, but don't waste your breath trying to make other people accept it or to change their minds.