Huh, I definitely don't see Final Fantasy as a difficult series in any sense. In fact, it's quite an easy one imo. The first 5 games are only hard in that their old school jrpgs, which means the grind/random encounters can be an issue. FFVI - VII were extremely easy, you basically had to try to struggle. FFVIII's difficult was in the weird system, FFXIV was easy as well. I could go on but Final Fantasy has never pushed it's players to get better really at all. Even FFXVI, the 'action' child of the series seems terrified to let the player lose, and tries to lead them down a nice, safe path the whole time, with very few exceptions (this is not using the cheat accessories btw).
idk, I'm just not seeing it. FFXIV is par for the course imo, it's trying to get players to experience a story.
That said, none of this matters, as you're moving on. I also wish you the best and hope you find games you love
