Thats a really childish thing to do. Dont take it too personal though, if its only happened twice in years and you arent routinely getting vote dismissed or into confrontations then you probably play just fine.

Also, dont beat yourself up when you really do screw up. Everyone makes mistakes from time to time, or has bad days, or just struggles with certain jobs, or has brain farts. I had 2 on my alt during an Alex raid yesterday (the one with the puddles). Co tanking a struggling group, forgot how to kick the bombs myself when nobody did it, had to take over as MT multiple times and then bombs thrown in dumb places, I die, and hit return home thinking it was a raise. Dumb stuff happens sometimes, but often its a team effort at the dumb dumb.