I did a complete re-install this morning and it seems to be working fine. I know, this should have been a first approach to a solution, but I was lazy and hoping to avoid it. (my fiancee must have done something wrong when installing it the other night =p)

Thank you for the responses, and to the others with issues if you have not tried it, I would suggest a re-install.

Also, I had some game files still on my system when I installed it the other night, this time around I deleted every FFXIV file on my computer before doing the install.