Could always come to Dynamis. There's a Shiro large on my main world that only has 50 bids, while the other larges have under 20.

I know this isn't a long term solution, and that we really do need something along the lines of instanced housing or the ability to build up apartments/IS into something better, but I can't disagree with the people that bring up that others aren't willing to do what it takes to improve their odds.