These are just one side of the argument that give half a story:
- People didn't ask for log during ARR: hum, that's probably why the first 3 statics I joint back in ARR struggle to beat Coils enrage even at 10 or 15% echo. Miraculous all static I joint since SB never had that problem, I wonder why?
- FC: I tell you two reasons why I'm not in an FC, .drama free and benefit. Some people I played with these days ... we're used to be in the same FC, we just decided all split up and own our own FC house instead.
- People didn't stay on groups that showed promise: not really. People are always desperate for promised group. If the group actually shows promise people will beg to stay. If the group hit the stated progging point and progress. Like, even once the lockout run out, these people would even ask if anyone willing to stay for another round. But groups that wiped multiple time at a point 2-3 behind the one stated in PF. Yeah people will leave. If you gonna blame, blame the bad actors
The rest of your post is -to be honest - feel like you just want to either play the victim card and play charitable with other time.
- Do you know why people get pissed/impatient in learning party where there are few apples who clearly not at the current prog point? It's because these party often time are not the only one available. When content comes out, there are always tone of party available at every prog point. Yet a lot of people still want to join party that well ahead of their own for selfish reason.
- Do you know you don't have to navigate the hardcore community to do the hardcore content? A glance at most recruiting site/discord and one can see they are always a wide range of static available. From weekone - log required all the way down to casual-social static no log we clear when we clear if we clear. What prevent you from joining those group?
A lot of time, complain like yours are often stem of a sense of entitlement. By over-evaluate your own ability and think you deserve somthing more ... often without proof. Then pull the victim card when other put up a wall and prevent you joining their circle. Guess what, even with those wall it's not like the content is locked out for you.
Offering myself as an example: I had cleared Ultimate, I usually get savage done withint 4-5 weeks of release. But this tier, since it's the last one and I'm not in a hurry, I decided to join an "ultra-casual" static.
- There is no time commitment.
- Nobody care about logging.
- Almost every single week we gonna cancel raid, from work reason to someone just decide to get drunk that night.
- We cleared P12 just 3 weeks ago, but hey, we still cleared.
- We're casual and proud of it.
People like you always make it sound like the door is close to you, but often it's only because you try to go through a door that you don't fit.