Yeah so if you punch someone in the face when all they did was verbally provoke you... you can still be arrested for assault. If the police get called they won't just let you go because you said 'but they were mean first!' Many of these places have their hands tied, though schools a bit less so. Bullies and trolls know the rules, they know the laws that govern the space they are acting in. They know where the line is so they can toe it just right so they can't actually get in trouble, and as already stated 'but because they did something' is not a defense for escalation. And that is what it is, it isn't self-defense, it is escalation. If you fight back toeing the same line it'll be less likely to get reported or acted on if reported. The moment you escalate it is on you.
lol also ten characters.
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Yeaaaaah ToS can be kind of vague now I got friends that get stalk all day by players that obviously want to harm them they report the stalker SE do nothing and when they talk back they are the one getting reported its kinda f-
Hell I got a friend she was a minor and she was threaten and call all sort of name by an adult because that adult said : "You will ERP with me" and she said no he got reported and has expected nothing I had to send somehow somewhere a email directly to SE and ask them to do something and the guy only got soft ban 15 days we talking about a guy that give a minor death threats, r*pe threats and that girl she was crying before she black listed him and don't give me the : "oh but its not a games for kids" Well as far as I am concern the game is rated Teen
and I just tell a guy that was struggling with DRK that he was playing it wrong and told him that I will help him if he want and got reported for toxic behavior
I'm sorry.. I shouldnt have posted this when I was extremely upset.. i would delete it if I could... I'm sorry I ranted about it I'm just idk I talk with my friends and bestie and we never have an issue its just I wish people would stop... just because someone .. well nvm I don't want to rant again.. I'm sorry I ranted to all of you and broke down.. AGAin.... I laid down with my plushys and watched my vampire shows and I calmed down.. I just don't think its fair in this world I would rather someone shoot me than harm me mentally.. physical pain I can deal with.. emotional not so much
Its alright there is nothing wrong openings to people sometimes you slip and anger take over reason it can happen to everyoneI'm sorry.. I shouldnt have posted this when I was extremely upset.. i would delete it if I could... I'm sorry I ranted about it I'm just idk I talk with my friends and bestie and we never have an issue its just I wish people would stop... just because someone .. well nvm I don't want to rant again.. I'm sorry I ranted to all of you and broke down.. AGAin.... I laid down with my plushys and watched my vampire shows and I calmed down.. I just don't think its fair in this world I would rather someone shoot me than harm me mentally.. physical pain I can deal with.. emotional not so much
Yeah unfortunately the crowd will nitpick and cover anything up so anything of a serious matter won't be treated properly. I made that mistake of bringing feedback here the other week. Forums is basically talking at a brick wall imo. Either react farmers or fighting like divorced couples or just brick wall chat loop.I'm sorry.. I shouldnt have posted this when I was extremely upset.. i would delete it if I could... I'm sorry I ranted about it I'm just idk I talk with my friends and bestie and we never have an issue its just I wish people would stop... just because someone .. well nvm I don't want to rant again.. I'm sorry I ranted to all of you and broke down.. AGAin.... I laid down with my plushys and watched my vampire shows and I calmed down.. I just don't think its fair in this world I would rather someone shoot me than harm me mentally.. physical pain I can deal with.. emotional not so much
https://www.yourlifeyourvoice.org/pages/depression.aspxI'm sorry.. I shouldnt have posted this when I was extremely upset.. i would delete it if I could... I'm sorry I ranted about it I'm just idk I talk with my friends and bestie and we never have an issue its just I wish people would stop... just because someone .. well nvm I don't want to rant again.. I'm sorry I ranted to all of you and broke down.. AGAin.... I laid down with my plushys and watched my vampire shows and I calmed down.. I just don't think its fair in this world I would rather someone shoot me than harm me mentally.. physical pain I can deal with.. emotional not so much
https://www.yourlifeyourvoice.org/pa...-thinking.aspx
https://www.yourlifeyourvoice.org/pa...happiness.aspx
https://www.yourlifeyourvoice.org/Pages/Tips.aspx
I'll post these again.
And as a strong suggestion, when you get high emotions like that, please remove yourself from situations with other people. If you keep relying on doing that, you're just going to get more negativity drawn to you, and that will only make your mood(s) at the time much worse.
You might even need to take breaks from the game if you get that heated about something happening. I'd suggest maybe try writing or journaling when you get like that, and then go back over what you wrote when you're in a calmed mindset and maybe try to figure out why you 'jump the gun' and get heated like this.
Also, I would suggest looking into Intermittent explosive disorder (IED), with a doctor or therapist. It's something I have, and it's something I'm kind of feeling from some of your posts.
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lmao and what was your initial reply to this?Yeah unfortunately the crowd will nitpick and cover anything up so anything of a serious matter won't be treated properly. I made that mistake of bringing feedback here the other week. Forums is basically talking at a brick wall imo. Either react farmers or fighting like divorced couples or just brick wall chat loop.
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