how they enforce tos is wrong

[Bacent]

Wait, you mean the ToS in all online games and such treats things like bullies in schools, where if you dare react in certain ways you get punished instead of the bad person/people?

But honestly, just set yourself to /busy and do something by yourself that won't get you to react like that.

If you're getting heated, remove yourself right away from what's making you heated. Sure, they started something to get you heated, but you probably ended up making things worse by giving in to them, when they might have wanted that to happen.

It's a two way street. Look both ways before crossing, then be on your way. Silently if you have to.

[Daddyslittlevampire]

Wait, you mean the ToS in all online games and such treats things like bullies in schools, where if you dare react in certain ways you get punished instead of the bad person/people?

But honestly, just set yourself to /busy and do something by yourself that won't get you to react like that.

If you're getting heated, remove yourself right away from what's making you heated. Sure, they started something to get you heated, but you probably ended up making things worse by giving in to them, when they might have wanted that to happen.

It's a two way street. Look both ways before crossing, then be on your way. Silently if you have to.

To be honest in school, in games, in websites every where this tends to hold true people punish the innocent person just for reacting.. but the ones who set them off and pushed them to that point get nothing its not fair

[Bacent]

To be honest in school, in games, in websites every where this tends to hold true people punish the innocent person just for reacting.. but the ones who set them off and pushed them to that point get nothing its not fair

Life isn't fair. Learn to roll with it and use the experience to prepare you for your next encounter. It's the Savage Raid that you have no choice but to go with.

Also you can just turn off chat and choose to be a silent player. You're not making yourself look like a fool if you don't say anything to someone antagonizing you.

[Daddyslittlevampire]

Life isn't fair. Learn to roll with it and use the experience to prepare you for your next encounter. It's the Savage Raid that you have no choice but to go with.

Also you can just turn off chat and choose to be a silent player. You're not making yourself look like a fool if you don't say anything to someone antagonizing you.

I do choice and I'm so close to making the choice... I'm sick and tired of fighting and struggling.. might as well ... choice my other option at this point because I'm so tired

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Honestly your best defense in games or life is just to not react at all. If you do react then you need to learn how to do it in a way that is within the TOS so they cannot use it against you. Fair or it is how the world is.

That impossible when someone sets you off irl or online it happens to fast to realize you cant stop yourself from reacted.. if that's how the world is... I don't want to be in this world anymore

[BaconBits]

*Sniff sniff*

Is that some Chloeposting I smell?

[Noox-115]

Yeaaaaah ToS can be kind of vague now I got friends that get stalk all day by players that obviously want to harm them they report the stalker SE do nothing and when they talk back they are the one getting reported its kinda f-

Hell I got a friend she was a minor and she was threaten and call all sort of name by an adult because that adult said : "You will ERP with me" and she said no he got reported and has expected nothing I had to send somehow somewhere a email directly to SE and ask them to do something and the guy only got soft ban 15 days we talking about a guy that give a minor death threats, r*pe threats and that girl she was crying before she black listed him and don't give me the : "oh but its not a games for kids" Well as far as I am concern the game is rated Teen

and I just tell a guy that was struggling with DRK that he was playing it wrong and told him that I will help him if he want and got reported for toxic behavior

[Bacent]

That impossible when someone sets you off irl or online it happens to fast to realize you cant stop yourself from reacted.. if that's how the world is... I don't want to be in this world anymore

Then you need to seek help by getting a therapist. I'm not saying this to be mean. I'm saying this because people need help.

I'm 33, I've been seeing a therapist since I was 7. Every single month since. I still have a ton of issues I'm working through, but I've learned some things over time. I'm usually terrible with people, so I'm almost always acting like a weirdo dumbarse. I speak in chocobo puns half the time in game when I feel like talking, and if I don't feel like it I just right click and hide the chat.

If things are mentally bad for you, here's some links I have on hand from my own therapist that I've been given in the past:

https://www.yourlifeyourvoice.org/pages/depression.aspx

https://www.yourlifeyourvoice.org/pa...-thinking.aspx

https://www.yourlifeyourvoice.org/pa...happiness.aspx

https://www.yourlifeyourvoice.org/Pages/Tips.aspx


Mental health isn't something to take lightly, so please look into things if they're bad for you.